The Sacred Pause

A Free Weekly Gathering in Silence

In a world of constant noise, urgency, and uncertainty, The Sacred Pause offers a simple invitation: to stop, be still, and rest in silence—together.

This is not a class, workshop, or discussion. It is a quiet, shared experience designed to create space for calm, clarity, and inner grounding.

No meditation, prayer, or mindfulness experience is required. You don’t need to prepare or participate in any particular way. Simply arrive as you are.

Many leaders in caring professions — coaches, therapists, ministers, doctors, nurses — approach self-care the same way they approach their work: with commitment, discipline, and a desire to do it well.

But when we bring our high-achieving, goal-oriented selves into self-care, it can quietly defeat the very purpose.

True self-care isn’t something to conquer.
It’s something that nourishes.

It’s about identifying the practices you look forward to, return to again and again, and rely on to sustain your energy, clarity, and capacity to serve.

If you are someone who leads and serves with heart, you are likely carrying more than most people realize.

Ambitious, values-driven leaders often neglect their own care—not because they don’t know better, but because the needs around them feel urgent and unrelenting. Over time, this takes a toll.

I am declaring this year to be one of Collective Care. The pace of change, the challenge of complexity and uncertainty, the poly crisis before us… you name your stressor. They are taking their toll on our individual and collective well-being. We all have enough to consider, on top of our jobs, to have us feeling depleted, or on the verge of burnout – even in the context of a new year beginning.

We are living in an unpredictable, hurting world and need one another now more than ever – to love, be loved, to care, to do the right thing, to speak up… and the list goes on. 

Sometimes, we just need to stop, pause, rest, and recover. May you take time to rest in your still point this holiday season, find gratitude, and the next right action when the time is right. 

“Grounded Gratitude” means you are identifying ways in which you are thankful for ALL of what you are navigating, not just the high points. It’s a mindful practice about also finding the positive or blessing in the low points or what is not wanted. THIS is the REAL work of gratitude.

It’s been a while since I communicated, as I have been full in so many ways! I am still ensconced in my leadership and organization development work – and I graduated from seminary in June as an Interfaith/Interspiritual Minister. This just adds to my eclectic background and ways I can be present and of service to a world transforming.

It’s Valentine’s day - a holiday to celebrate love and loving relationships.

In the United States, we have a lot of changes taking place. Some of my colleagues are happy, some are not. Despite our differences, how can we show love, care and kindness for our fellow human beings?

Last week, I told a story about an interaction with my stepson where I asked him to cut a watermelon. I showed him how to do it but I neglected to share an important detail in the story.

The other day, I asked my stepson to cut a watermelon to help with preparing dinner. It was a large watermelon and he was overwhelmed by the task – not sure he could safely do it without cutting himself, and he didn’t know how to “properly” cut a watermelon.